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0MEN COURIER-POST jfor and about io MONDAY, JANUARY 25, 1960 On the Social Scene PIT?" V'bihihiiwimi'iiiii i "i i fi (iMUmiWfii' i- I inn. I I flt i -i 1 J-, I i i 4 si 2 JjfJ Friday evening to Mr. and Mrs. Harold D. Erickson, Mr.

and Mrs. Melvin B. Warwick and Mr. and Mrs. J.

Richard Lofft, of that suburb. Mr, and Mrs. Stanley J. No-wak, of 1425 Dayton are being congratulated on the birth of a second child, a son, Mark John, on Jan. 14.

The engagement of Miss Florence Ann Lilly to Mr. John J. Redmond son of Mr. and Mrs, Redman, of 3158 Alabama has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

Samuel a Lilly, of Thorofare. A May wedding is planned. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph E.

Sullivan, of 74 Branch Med-ford are being congratulated on the birth of a second child, a daughter, Rita, on Jan. 13. Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Towns-end, of 508 Maple Had- donfield, have returned after a 10-day stay In Washington.

D. where they were guests of Mr. and Mrs. Edmund Sharp. Mr.

and Mrs. Earl C. Gant of 4 Tanagcr Audubon Park, announce the engagement of their daughter. Miss Mary Margaret Gant, to Mr. Walter P.

Ashe son of Mr. and Mrs. Ashe, of 104 N. Broadway, Gloueestcr City. A September wedding is planned.

Mr. and Mrs. J. Richard Lofft, of 269 New Jersey Coll-lngswood, entertained Saturday evening at dessert and bridgo for Mr. and Mrs.

Kenneth A. Snow, of that suburb; Mr. and Mrs. Charles Sehuck, of Wood-crest; Mr. and Mrs.

L. Richard Divis and Mr. and Mrs. Richard T. Collings, of Barrington, and Mrs.

James L. Dentz, of Ashland. Mr. and Mrs. Joseph N.

Hart-man, of 27 Marlboro Marl-ton, are receiving congratulations on the birth of a fifth child, a daughter, Dorothy Elaine, on Jan. 17. II II ll .1 III RANDOM PATTERN and subdued by a new tovtnrn sot a mnnd nf plopnnt com- one shade development in which of wool varn is wranncd MISS MARGARET M. REILLY Whose engagement to Mr. John J.

Robertson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Glendon A. Robertson, of Colwick, has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs.

John J. Reilly, of Haddonfield. A fall wedding is planned. Mr. and Mrs.

George Scarpa, of 1551 Browning Fcnsauken Towaship, have announced the engagement of their daughter. Miss Barbara Jaync Scarpa, to Mr. Rcmo J. D'Ortenzio, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Vincent D'Ortenzio, of Corning, N. Y. An April wedding is planned. Mr. D'Ortenzio received both Bachelor's and Master's degrees from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, Troy, N.

Y. Mr. and Mrs. W. Arthur Ixifft, of 515 Bettlewood Collings-wood, entertained at a dinner Saturday evening in honor of Mr.

and Mrs. Herbert A. Greene, of Germantown, who recently returned from an extended Pacific cruise. Mrs. C.

Virginia Wcyman, of 553 Haddon announces the engagement of her daughter. Miss Virginia Mae Wcyman, to Mr. Anthony S. DiBartolomeo, son of Mr. and Mrs.

Anthony DiBartolomeo, of 1030 S. 3d st. A fall wedding is planned. Miss Mimi Boone, Miss Marilyn Holl, Miss Dana Smith and Miss Janet Nye, of Haddonfield, entertained Friday evening at the home of Mrs. Albert Hansen, 549 Redwood that suburb, in honor of Mrs.

Hansen's niece, Miss Dorothy E. Roscoe, also of Haddonfield. Miss Ros-roe's marriage to Mr. Carl G. rfizennuier 3d, of Elourtown, will take place Saturday, Feb.

6. Announcement has been made of the engagement of Miss Julia Margaret Joiner, daughter of Mrs. James J. Joiner, of 370O Terrace ave. Tennsauken Township, and the late Mr.

Joiner, to Mr. Arthur Edward Kauker, son of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Kauker, of Philadelphia. An April wedding is planned.

Mr. and Mrs. William F. Kraekel, of Cutchoque Med-ford Lakes, are receiving congratulations on the birth of a third child, a son, Robert Joel, on Jan. 17, iff Mr.

and Mrs. Milton S. Guthrie, of 201 Guilford Coll-jngswood, were hosts at dessert fort in a James Lees carpet, named around another to produce a twin New Dawn. Subtle colors are achieved tone ciTect. At the Weave Shop.

Lord Douglas Even Likes Ike! British Memoirs A bout-Face 1 1 Dress a Misnomer By INEZ ItOBB Command at the time of tho European invasion, and eventually commander-in-chief and military governor of the British zone of Germany. "I'm not coing to try to shoot down Ike," he continued, with a barely suppressed grin. "I worked for him during the war and I have a tremendous admiration and affection for him. "Remember, I've fought and Town with you Americans in two World Wars. In the first, I commanded a flight of eight American pilots and fifty mechanics.

I remember them with the greatest pleasure charming boys all. They were almost all engineering students and fine lads. "And in World War II. I formed great friendships with your General 'Tooey' (Carl) Spaatz and General Jimmy Doo-liltle, I pot along splendidly with my opposite members in the American Air Force. "What a fine man General Doolittle Is! During the African Word lli.it another Kir.it Hnt-ish military figure is rommit-tine his memoirs to paper is ennuch to rork any truo-hlue Amrrican to his sub-foundations.

Haunted by shades of Monty, Lord Alanbrooke and now Anthony Eden, I approached Lord Douglas of Kirtleside, Marshal of the Royal Air Force, with prayer and crossed fingers. (Lord Douglas, chairman of British European Airways, is in tho United States on business.) And now my foundations are really rocking Sholto Douglas not only ain't mad at nobody, he positively likes Ike! "Mad, Not at all:" was tho memorable declaration, over luncheon, of the famous flier who rommanded fighter squadrons in World War I and who, in World War II. was commander-in-chief of his country's fighter squadrons during the crucial Paftle of Britain, later commancler-in-chlrf in the Middle East, then of the Coastal Beauty After Forty Mirror's Brutal Truth Blessing in Disguise By AMY VANDERBILT believe the flower should be worn as it grows. Someone told me the corsage should always be worn upside down. E.

D. Atlanta. The flower should be wornas it grows, stem down. Orchids, which grow with the stem up, the flowers down, are worn stem up. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: My son is to be married soon, and this morning I received an invitation to a tea to be held in another city honoring the bride-to-be.

Am I expected to stand in the receiving line and if so, what should I wear? I have another problem also. My husband's business superior invited us (he asked my hus-ban in person) to a cocktail party at his home (not a business group). My husband thanked him, explaining that we do not drink and graciously declined. Now, we are wondering if we should have accepted anyway. Are nondrinkers welcome at cocktail parties, or did we do the right thing? M.

Birmingham, Ala. THEY WILL FR OR ABLY expect you to stand in the receiving line. Wear a dressy afternoon dress and gloves (but don't wear your gloves, if the tea is held in the bride's home and you are a house guest there). Yes, I think you should have accepted the invitation as a point of courtesy to your husband's superior. However, he was not correct in giving the invitation to your husband.

He might have sounded your husband out about it then asked his wife to call or write you, extending the invitation properly. At most cocktail parties there are other things that you can drink that are non alcoholic-tonic water, soda, ginger ale and you can ask for fruit juice or tomato juice. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: When my son married, I had a luncheon in honor of his wife. To this I asked all my friends and relatives, including at least a dozen or so acquaintances of long standing whom I talk to on ine pnone occasionally and Dear Abby Idea Is Suggested For 'Bowed-Legs' By ABIGAIL VAN Bl BEN DEAR ABBY: Tell that man who thinks his bowed legs are ruining his life to forget about his legs, develop his personality and find himself a nice knock-kneed girl. I married one and offer this littlo poem for encourage- 11 Photo br Don Corvelli Studio who have picked me up in their cars to go to other luncheons, etc.

The mother of a boy who attended private school with my son was also included. It was my thought, since the girl was married, that I was sort of introducing her to the community. I mention this because I know, I suppose, that intimates and relatives should be invited only, but because this was a luncheon and the girl was from out of town, I felt it was all right. I now find that at least five of these guests did not invite me to their parties (given shortly after my luncheon), and I feel that even if I was wrong in asking them they are even more in the wrong by snubbing me. However it is done, and I would be interested in your opinion.

Also, since they gave gifts, should I return the courtesy even though uninvited? M. Boston, Mass. YOU WERE QUITE correct In the way you handled the matter. Invitations connected with weddings are not "returned" in the usual way. These various people were probably limited by their own guest list and for that reason did not Include you.

Undoubtedly you will receive invitations to other less personal functions. Don't send gifts to showers to which you were not invited. CALL IIA 8-4422 mm mm mm mm mm mmt mm mmm mmm mam Milt SIAUrhtH MUWt ntUUCING PLM I I 142 Haddon Haddonfield I I Pleme ruth me further Information obeut itouffer Hem (educing Plan wiriieut obligation. I NAME ADDRESS CITY LL -STATE. TRIM INCHES P0 si 'Cocktail DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: What is a cocktail dress? G.

Boston, It is difficult to define a cocktail dress, but it is a semi-formal costume not necessarily a dress, sometimes separates. Even a cashmere sweater and a dressy, full skirt could be a cocktail dress. Sometimes it has short sleeves, sometimes no sleeves and occasionally it has long sleeves. For example, I saw a very chic woman the other day with a long-sleeved cocktail costume. The top was a turtle-necked, long-sleeved black mat jersey blouse.

The skirt was a heavy white satin. Some cocktail dresses are what we used to call informal dinner dresses, or short dance dresses. On the other hand, some cocktail dresses now have long skirts or divided skirts or even dressy pants (these latter for the hostess). At any rate, the cocktail dress is a far cry from what my mother used to call her "afternoon clothes." It approaches more what she considered dinner clothes. The strange thing about all of this is that cocktail dress is worn by women who never go to a cocktail party and who never have touched alcohol, by grandmas like yourself and by 18-year-olds.

They may be worn to late afternoon and evening weddings. Terhaps a better term for this semi-formal costume should be divised. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: My husband has given me a mink scarf. Please advise me with what dress may I wear this fur piece, and at what time of day or night. Also, may it be worn with short sleeves? A.

New Orleans. Such a scarf looks belter with tailored clothes than with very dressy ones, with silk and wool, than with cotton unless the cotton has a woolen look. It may be worn with short sleeves in the daytime or after dark, preferably with street clothes. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: How should a corsage be worn when there are ribbons attached to the stem? I always STORES: PENNSAUKEN Pi. MO nbnv Marlton Pik ELUSBURG Dl.

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WOODBURY 22 Brood St. MT. HOLLY Pi. 38 ahov Impaction Station BURLINGTON 17 Broad St. HADDON TWP.

Cryitnl Lot Shopping Cntr Crystal laic Ave, DEPTFORD TWP. Cooper St. opp. Municipal Bldg, OPEN SUNDAYS All Stores Reg. A 4 MISS JOAN SPARACIN Daughter of Mr.

and Mrs. John Sparacin, of Delaware Township, who have announced her engagement to Mr. Sidney Pest-ka, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Pestka, of Trenton.

The wedding is planned for summer. T. McLEOD Profile face. hats will flatter your Work on your neck and use my neck care plan for this. To obtain a copy of "How to Youthify Your Neck," send me in care of The Courier-Post a long, self-addressed, FOUR-CENT stamped envelope and TEN cents in coin.

The outlined neck treatment will also help the sagging contour. I belive all problems have some solution. It may not be the perfect one, but it will be helpful. Don't feel hopeless about If you want to, you can help whatever it is that worries you. "Whenever I lmlhn in warm water my skin itches terribly.

I have just moved to this section and I think it is thp hard water. What ran I do? E. Use a handful of bicarbonate of soda in your bath water and also use cosmetic oil afterwards. "My Nkin is fairly well tanned. I have blue eyes and silver-gray hair.

Can I wear a beigo wool dress, and if you think well of it, what color accessories? I have not yet purchased the material to make the outfit. R. O'D." I would not choose beige. A lovely blue in a deep shade would do so much more for your skin, hair and eyes. "Pops hot oil really help dry hair? Sara." Yes, but it must be applied directly on the scalp and left for as long as possible with a damp towel wound around to "steam" it In.

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If campaign, I was told to hand over one of my R.A.F. bomber squadrons to Tooey, something a commander is always reluctant to do and his men reluctant to carry out. "As you know, Jimmy was Tooey's bornlxr commander. Jimmy's first assignment for the British group was the bombing of targets in Naples. Just before take-off Jimmy went out to the field and said, 'I'm going with you "Of course, the British officers said, 'Sir, if you insist on going, we'll put you with the most experienced But Jimmy said, 'No, I want to go with the newest crew the one most recently joined "And it was with the newest crew that he flew the mission.

I don't want to make the story too good. I won't say that this was the first combat mission that this crew had ever flown, but it was very nearly its first mission. "You can imagine what that did for morale! Oh. you had splendid chaps. What I am writing is not a critique of the wars I've been in, but an autobiography," said Lord Douglas, who is the spittin' image of John Bull, the very roast lieef (prime!) of Old England, complete with port complexion.

A chunky, solid man buttoned Into a dark-blue suit, he is almost as legendary a figure in England as Charles Lindbergh is in the U. S. A. A lieutenant colonel at the age of 23, he commanded fighter squadrons in World War I. A pioneer commercial air pilot, he holds British license No.

4. For the past 10 years, he has been chairman of British European Airways. The title of his autobiography? "I haven't got around to that yet," he said. And he added with that suppressed grin, "No one need take to the shelters." Puffed Rico Kites Toast rd in Oven Salted puffed rice is tasty at snacktimo. Place 4 cups of puffed rice in a shallow baking pan and toast in a moderate (MO-dogrec) oven about 10 minutes.

Melt 4 tablespoons of butter in a large skillet. Add Va teaspoon of salt and the toasted puffed rice. Heat, stirring constantly, over high heat about 1 minute. Serve hot. Shaking, Brushing Rcnetv Corduroy When laundering wash and wear corduroy, shake the garment thoroughly a couple of tiiiiis liming tiie drying, and give it a light all-over brushing.

This method helps restore the original velvety texture. Look and Learn 1. What percentage of money exchanges in the United States is done through checks? 2. When do the average man and woman attain their maxi mum weight? 3. What five LVS.

Presidents were twice married? 4. What are the Roman numerals for this year of 1960? 5. Which bird has the greatest speed durability of all birds? Answers 1. About 90 percent, 2. Men at about the age of 40, and women at about 50.

3. Tyler, Fillmore, Benj. Harrison, Theo. Roosevelt, and Wilson. 4.

MCMLX. 5. The racing pigeon. One pigeon, in a race a few years ago, flew 600 miles at an average of 67 mph. By EDITH "My face Is very round.

Of course, it was round when I was young, but now the roundness is a saggy mess and I look so old, and I hate it. I have tried massage and exercise but to no avail. My skin is also finely wrinkled and as dry as old leaves. I am tall, have a fair figure, brown-gray hair, brown eyes and fairly Rood coloring. But, this saggy business really defeats me.

Can you make any helpful suggestions? Mrs. II. First, stop looking in the mirror so often. I realize it is not from vanity but every time you look you see only what you dislike. Get busy on a plan.

Even though your skin is dry, buy a bottle of good astringent at your cosmetic counter and pat your contour with it. This will help to induce stimulated circulation. Use the astringent on a pad of absorbent cotton. Use only cleansing cream for cleansing the face and neck and apply cosmetic oil generously. This will tend to refine the surface skin and help to erase wrinkles.

Try wearing a chin strap 'when reading or sewing. Do not sleep in the chin strap as it might become twisted and will do no good. A chin strap is a reminder of head up! Also consider your necklines. Are they truly flattering? Do your hair in a high, lifted style, with a smooth, well brushed-up back line. If you wear eyeglasses, try on frames until you find a frame with a slight lift in the design.

All this may seem trivial to you but the lifted line in everything- will help make that sag-giness look less important. If you wear hats, never choose the hat with a downward brim. 1152 So. Broadway, EMerson 5-9733' i. Car.

fcroorfwgy 1 Koiahn Ay .1. TIME JfWN 5'i cotfjT'T ll WAVE I Includci holr cut and itylt 1 letting. I ir Other Wovti Slightly Hightr (' 1 No Appointment Nwrnnan OPEN Olher Day 'til :00 Closed Wednesday I 1152 So. Broadway, EMerson 5-9733 ft. I.

car. rooswoy Kaiahn Jv, 3 your sister-in-law appears io be for the birds, unless you want more feathers io fly, go. DEAR ABBY: A relative of mine got a divorce after having been married for twenty years. She never married after that. But her ex-husband did.

He died a few months ago and now she goes around calling herself a "widow." Isn't she still a And don't you think somebody ought to tell her so? A RELATIVE DEAR RELATIVE: She is a "divorcee" whose former hu.s-bmid is deceased. A man leaves only otic widow the woman in hom he icns tnor-ried at the time of his death. DEAR ABBY: Will you do an old lady a favor and ask some of the young men who live away from home to write in and tell how much it costs them to live? We have two sons (24 and 27) and they both live at home. For free. I keep their rooms clean and do their laundry (always 24 or 25 shirts a week), they holler if I don't have steaks or chops every night.

They each have to support an automobile so they can't pay anything at home. They say that unless parents are on welfare nobody pays room and board anymore. It seems like WE are, paying THEM to stay with us. Are we crazy or are thev? MA AND I 'A DEAR MA AND JM: They are cravihke a couple of foxes. BOYS don't pau room and board but MEN do.

If your sons think they can get room, board mid laundry for less than f25.0fl week, let them try it. CONFIDENTIAL TO UT-SET MOTHER: Don't believe BAKERY ment: "My knees are knocked, his legs are bowed. And to this fact much bliss is owed. And of our marriage, this I say, When we're together we spell O.K." Sincerely yours, HAITTLY MARRIED DEAR ABBY: I am 21 years old and accepted an engagement ring from a man of 2(5. I suppose this will sound crazy to you but here kocs: I have a baby born out of wedlock and I want a father for her so badly that I think I would marry anyone who loved her although I didn't love the man.

What I am trying to say, Abby, is that I do not love this man I am engaged to. But ho my baby and I'm afraid if I don't marry him I might never get another chance to marry someone who will accept my child. I am nice looking and come from a nice family, but I know that not many men will marry an uiiwiti mother. The man I'm encaged to says he loves me, but I can't truthfully say that I love him. He is like a good friend or brother to me.

Would I bo foolish to pass him up under the circumstances? NEEDING HELP DEAR KEED1XG: If you can't return his love return his ring. DEAR ABBY: My husband's sister always thought she was too good for me. During the six years I have been married to her brother, she never once had us to her place for a meal. She has been here for so many meals I can't count them. Finally, her husband won a turkey in a raffle, so she got big-hearted and invited us for supper.

I told my husband didn't feel like going if they had to win a turkey before they invited us. He says we should go no matter where they got the turkey. Should I go? NOT GOOD ENOUGH DEAR N. G. Even though TUESDAY SPECIAL Big 24c Saving COCONUT CUSTARD I '( 1 tt 1 I I everything you hear afomt "school" and The public school doors are open to parents who wish to visit anytime without notice.

It's too bad some parents prefer to stay at home and believe the worst rather than io visit scfwols and learn the truth. Tuesday, Jan. 26th Only I I WWVW mil FAMING WWVW WPett AtiMJ.