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5 COURIER -POST for and a about WOMEN 10 MONDAY, JANUARY 25, 1960 On the Social Scene Mr. and Mrs. George Scarpa, of 1551 Browning Pensauker Township, have announced the engagement of their daughter, Miss Barbara Jayne Scarpa, to Mr. Remo J. D'Ortenzio, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Vincent D'Ortenzio, of Corning, N. Y. An April wedding is planned. Mr.

D'Ortenzio received Bachelor's and Master's degrees from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, Troy, N. Y. Mr. and Mrs. Arthur Lofft, of 515 Bettlewood Collingswood, entertained at a dinner Saturday evening in honor of Mr.

and Mrs. Herbert A. Greene, of Germantown, who recently returned from an extended Pacific cruise. Mrs. C.

Virginia Weyman, of 553 Haddon announces the engagement of her daughter, Miss Virginia Mae Weyman, to Mr. Anthony S. DiBartolomeo, son of Mr. and Mrs. Anthony DiBartolomeo, of 1030 S.

3d st. A fall wedding is planned. Miss Mimi Boone, Miss Marilyn Holl, Miss Dana Smith and Miss Janet Nye, of Haddonfield, entertained Friday evening at the home of Mrs. Albert Hansen, 549 Redwood that suburb, in honor of Mrs. Hansen's niece, Miss Dorothy E.

Roscoe, also of Haddonfield. Miss Roscoe's marriage to Mr. Carl G. Pfizenmaier 3d, of Flourtown, will take place Saturday, Feb. 6.

Announcement has been made of the engagement of Miss Julia Margaret Joiner, daughter of Mrs. James J. Joiner, of 3700 Terrace Pennsauken Township, and the late Mr. Joiner, to Mr. Arthur Edward Kauker, son of Mr.

and Mrs. Frank J. Kauker, of Philadelphia. An April wedding is planned. Mr.

and Mrs. William F. Kraekel, of Cutchoque Medford Lakes, are receiving congratulations on the birth of a third child, a son, Robert Joel, on Jan. 17. Mr.

and Mrs. Milton S. Guthrie, of 201 Guilford Collingswood, were hosts at dessert Friday evening to Mr. and Mrs. Harold D.

Erickson, Mr. and Mrs. Melvin B. Warwick and Mr. and Mrs.

J. Richard Lofft, of that suburb. Mr. and Mrs. Stanley J.

Nowak, of 1425 Dayton are being congratulated on the birth of a second child, a son, Mark John, on Jan. 14. The engagement of Miss Florence Ann Lilly to Mr. John J. Redmond son of Mr.

and Mrs. Redman, of 3158 Alabama has been announced by her parents, Mr. and Mrs. Samuel a Lilly, of Thorofare. A May wedding is planned.

Mr. and Mrs. Joseph E. Sullivan, of 74 Branch Medford are being congratulated on the birth of a second child, a daughter, Rita, on Jan. 13.

Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Townsend, of 508 Maple Had- MISS JOAN SPARACIN Daughter of Mr. and Mrs. John Sparacin, of Delaware Township, who have announced her engagement to Mr.

Sidney Pestka, son of Mr. and Mrs. Harry Pestka, of Trenton. The wedding is planned for summer. Beauty After Forty Mirror's Brutal Truth Blessing in Disguise By EDITH T.

McLEOD "My face is very round. Of course, it was round when I was young, but now the roundness is a saggy mess and I look SO old, and I hate it. I have tried massage and exercise but to no avail. My skin is also finely wrinkled and as dry as old leaves. I am tall, have a fair figure, brown-gray hair, brown eyes and fairly good coloring.

But, this saggy business really defeats me. Can you make any helpful suggestions? Mrs. H. First, stop looking in the mirror so often. I realize it is not from vanity but every time you look you see only what you dislike.

Get busy on a plan. Even though your skin is dry, 1 buy a bottle of good astringent at your cosmetic counter and pat your contour with it. This will help to induce stimulated circulation. Use the astringent on a pad of absorbent cotton. Use only cleansing cream for cleansing the face and neck and apply cosmetic oil generously.

This will tend to refine the surface skin and help to erase wrinkles. Try wearing a chin strap when writing. reading or sewing. Do not sleep in the chin strap as it might become twisted and will do no good. A chin strap is a reminder of head up! Also consider your necklines.

Are they truly flattering? Do your hair in a high, lifted style, with a smooth, well brushed-up back line. If you wear eyeglasses, try on frames until you find a frame with a slight lift in the design. All this may seem trivial to you but the lifted 1 line in everything will help make that sagginess look less important. If you wear hats, never choose the hat with a downward brim. LIMITED TIME ONLY 00 WAVE Includes hair cut and style setting.

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Cor. Broadway Kaighn Ave. PARKING donfield, have returned after a 10-day stay in Washington, D. where they were guests of Mr. and Mrs.

Edmund Sharp, Mr. and Mrs. Earl C. Gant of 4 Tanager Audubon Park, announce the engagement of their daughter, Miss Mary Margaret Gant, to Mr. Walter P.

Ashe son of Mr. and Mrs. Ashe, of 104 N. Broadway, Gloucester City, A September wedding is planned. Mr.

and Mrs. J. Richard Lofft, of 269 New Jersey Collingswood, entertained Saturday evening at dessert and bridge for Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth A.

Snow, of that suburb; Mr. and Mrs. Charles Schuck, of Woodcrest; Mr. and Mrs. L.

Richard Divis and Mr. and Mrs. Richard T. Collings, of Barrington, and Mrs. James L.

Dentz, of Ashland. RANDOM PATTERN and subdued texture set a mood of elegant comin a James Lees carpet, named New Dawn. Subtle colors are achieved by a new development in which one shade of wool yarn is wrapped around another to produce a twin tone effect. At the Weave Shop. Lord Douglas Even Likes Ike! British Memoirs About-Face Word that another great British military figure is committing his memoirs to paper is enough to rock any true-blue American to his sub-foundations.

Haunted by shades of Monty, Lord Alanbrooke and now Anthony Eden, I approached Lord Douglas of Kirtleside, Marshal of the Royal Air Force, with prayer and crossed fingers. (Lord Douglas, chairman of British European Airways, is in the United States on business.) And now my foundations are really rocking-Sholto Douglas not only ain't mad at nobody, he positively likes Ike! "Mad. Not at all!" was the memorable declaration, over luncheon, of the famous flier who commanded fighter squadrons in World War I and who, in World War II, was commander-in-chief of his country's fighter squadrons during the crucial Battle of Britain, later commander-in-chief in the Middie East, then of the Coastal By INEZ ROBB Command at the time of the European invasion, and eventually commander-in-chief and military governor of the British zone of Germany. "I'm not going to try to shoot down he continued, with a barely suppressed grin. "I worked for him during the war and I have a tremendous admiration and affection for him.

"Remember, I've fought and flown with you Americans in two World Wars. In the first, I commanded a flight of eight American pilots and fifty mechanics. I remember them with the greatest ing boys all. almost pleasure all engineering students and fine lads. "And in World War IT, I formed great friendships with your General 'Tooey' (Carl) Spaatz and General Jimmy Doolittle.

I got along splendidly with my opposite members in the American Air Force. "What a fine man General Doolittle is! During the African Dear 'Abby Idea Is Suggested For 'Bowed-Legs' By ABIGAIL, VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: Tell that man who thinks his bowed legs are ruining his life to forget about his and find himself a nice knock-kneed this little poem for encouragement: "My knees are knocked, his legs are bowed, And to this fact much bliss is owed. And of our marriage, this I say, When we're together we spell 0.K." Sincerely yours, HAPPILY MARRIED DEAR ABBY: I am 21 years old and accepted an engagement ring from a man of 26. I suppose this will sound crazy to you but here goes: I have a baby born out of wedlock and I want a father for her so badly that I think I would marry anyone who loved her although I didn't love the man. What I am trying to say, Abby, is that I do not love this man I am engaged to.

But he loves my baby and I'm afraid if I don't marry him I might never get another chance to marry someone who will accept my child. I am nice looking and come from a nice family, but I know that not many men will marry an unwed mother. The man I'm engaged to says he loves me, but I can't truthfully say that I love him. He is like a good friend or brother to me. Would I be foolish to pass him up under the circumstances? NEEDING HELP DEAR NEEDING: If you can't return his love--return his ring.

DEAR ABBY: My husband's sister always thought she was too good for me. During the six years I have been married to her brother, she never once had us to her place for a meal. She has been here for so many meals I can't count them. Finally, her husband won a turkey in a raffle, so she got big-hearted and invited us for supper. I told my husband didn't feel like going if they had to win a turkey before they invited us.

He says we should go no matter where they got the turkey. Should I go? NOT GOOD ENOUGH DEAR N. G. Even though Mr. and Mrs.

Joseph N. Hartman, of 27 Marlboro Marlton, are receiving congratulations on the birth of a fifth child, a daughter, Dorothy Elaine, on Jan. 17. -Photo by Don Corvelll Studios MISS MARGARET M. REILLY Whose engagement to Mr.

John J. Robertson, son of Mr. and Mrs. Glendon A. Robertson, of Colwick, has been announced by her parents, Mr.

and Mrs. John J. Reilly, of Haddonfield. A fall wedding is planned. 'Cocktail Dress' a Misnomer By AMY VANDERBILT campaign, I was told to hand over one of my R.A.F.

bomber squadrons to Tooey, something a commander is always reluctant to do and his men reluctant to carry out. "As you know, Jimmy was Tooey's bomber commander. Jimmy's first assignment for the British group was the bombing of targets in Naples. Just before take off Jimmy went out to the field and said, 'I'm going with you "Of course, the British officers said, 'Sir, if insist on going, we'll put you with the most experienced But Jimmy said, 'No, I want to go with the newest crew-the one most recently joined "And it was with the newest crew that he flew the mission. I don't want to make the story too good.

I won't say that this was the first combat mission that this crew had flown, but it was very nearly ever, first mission. "You can imagine what that did for morale! Oh, you had splendid chaps. What I am writing is not a critique of the wars I've been in, but an autobiography," said Lord Douglas, who is the spittin' image of John Bull, the very roast beef (prime!) of Old England, complete with port complexion. A chunky, solid man buttoned Into a dark-blue suit, he is almost as legendary a figure in England as Charles Lindbergh is in the U. S.

A. A lieutenant colonel at the age of 23, he commanded fighter squadrons in World War I. A pioneer commercial air pilot, he holds British license No. 4. For the past 10 years, he has been chairman of British European Airways, The title of his haven't got around to that yet," he said.

And he added with that suppressed grin, "No one' need take to the shelters." Puffed Rice Bites Toasted in Oven Salted puffed rice is tasty at snacktime. Place 4 cups of puffed rice in a shallow baking pan and toast in a moderate (350-degree) oven about 10 minutes. Melt 4 tablespoons of butter in a large skillet. Add teaspoon of salt and the toasted puffed rice. Heat, stirring constantly, over high heat about 1 minute.

Serve hot. Shaking, Brushing Renew Corduroy When laundering wash and wear corduroy, shake the garment thoroughly a couple of times during the drying, and give it a light all brushing. This method helps restore the original velvety texture. Look and Learn 1. What percentage of money exchanges in the United States is done through checks? 2.

When do the average man and woman attain their maximum weight? 3. What five S. Presidents were twice married? 4. What are the Roman numerals for this year of 1960? 5. Which bird has the greatest speed durability of all birds? Answers 1.

About 90 percent. 2. Men at about the age of 40, and women at about 50. 3. Tyler, Fillmore, Benj.

Harrison, Theo. Roosevelt, and Wilson. 4. MCMLX. 5.

The racing pigeon. One pigeon, in a race a few years ago, flew 600 miles at an average of 67 mph. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: What is a cocktail Boston, It is difficult to define a cocktail dress, but it is a semiformal costume not necessarily a dress, sometimes separates. Even a cashmere sweater and a dressy, full skirt could be a cocktail dress. Sometimes it has short sleeves, sometimes no sleeves and occasionally it has long sleeves.

For example, I saw a very chic woman the other day with a long-sleeved cocktail costume. The top was a turtlenecked, long sleeved black mat jersey blouse. skirt was a heavy white satin. Some cocktail dresses are what we used to call informal dinner dresses, or short dance dresses. On the other hand, some cocktail dresses now have long skirts or divided skirtsor even dressy pants (these latter for the hostess).

At any rate, the cocktail dress is a far cry from what my mother used to call her "afternoon clothes." It approaches more what she considered dinner clothes. The strange thing about all of this is that cocktail dress is worn by women who never go to a cocktail party and who never have touched alcohol, by grandmas like yourself and by 18-year-olds. They may be worn to late afternoon and evening weddings. Perhaps a better term for this semi-formal costume should be divised. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: My husband has given me a mink scarf.

Please advise me with what dress may I wear this fur piece, and at what time of day or night. Also, may it be worn with short New Orleans. Such a scarf looks better with tailored clothes than with very dressy ones, with silk and wool, than with cotton unless the cotton has a woolen look. It may be worn with short sleeves in the daytime or after dark, preferably with street clothes. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: How should a corsage worn when there are ribbons" attached to the believe the flower should be worn as it grows.

Someone told me the corsage should always be worn upside D. Atlanta. The flower should be worn as it grows, stem down. Orchids, which grow with the stem up, the flowers down, are worn stem up. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: My son is to be married soon, and this morning I received an invitation to a tea to be held in another city honoring the bride-to-be.

Am I expected to stand in the receiving line and if so, what should I wear? I have another problem also. My husband's business superior invited us (he asked my husban in person) to a cocktail party at his home (not a business group). My husband thanked him, explaining that we do not drink and graciously declined. Now, we are wondering if we should have accepted anyway. Are nondrinkers welcome at cocktail parties, or did we do the right Birmingham, Ala.

THEY WILL PROBABLY expect you to stand in the receiving line. Wear a dressy afternoon dress and gloves (but don't wear your gloves, if the tea is held in the bride's home and you are a house guest there). Yes, I think you should have accepted the invitation as a point of courtesy to your husband's superior. However, he was not correct in giving the invitation to your husband. He might have sounded your husband out about it then asked his wife to call or write you, extending the invitation properly.

At most cocktail parties there are other things that you can drink that are non alcoholictonic water, soda, ginger aleand you can ask for fruit juice or tomato juice. DEAR MISS VANDERBILT: When my son married, I had a luncheon in honor of his wife. To this I asked all my friends and relatives, including at least a dozen or. so acquaintances of long standing whom I talk to Suburban occasionally and STORES: Rt. Marlton 130 Pike above TUESDAY SPECIAL Rt.

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All Stores Tuesday, Jan. 26th Only SUNDAYS who have picked me up in their cars to go to other luncheons, etc. The mother of a boy who attended private school with my son also included. It was my thought, since the girl was married, that I was sort of introducing her to the community. I mention this because I know, I suppose, that intimates and relatives should be invited only, but because this was a luncheon and the girl was from out of town, I felt it was all right.

I now find that at least five of these guests did not invite me to their parties (given shortly after my luncheon), and I feel that even if I was wrong in asking them they are even more in the wrong by snubbing me. However it is done, and I would be interested in your opinion. Also, since they gave gifts, should I return the courtesy even though uninvited? -M. Boston, Mass. YOU WERE QUITE correct in the way you handled the matter.

Invitations connected with weddings are not "returned" in the usual way. These various people were probably limited by their own guest list and for that reason did not include you. Undoubtedly you will receive invitations to other, less personal functions. send gifts to showers to which you were not invited. Profile hats will flatter your face.

legs, develop his personality girl. I married one and offer your sister-in-law appears to be for the birds, unless you want more feathers to fly, go. DEAR ABBY: A relative of mine got a divorce after having been married for twenty years. She never married after that. But her ex-husband did.

He died a few months ago and now she goes around calling herself a "widow." Isn't she still a And don't you think somebody ought to tell her so? A RELATIVE DEAR RELATIVE: She is a "divorcee" whose former husband is deceased. A man leaves only one widow the woman to whom he was married at the time of his death. DEAR ABBY: Will you do an old lady a favor and ask some of the young men who live away from home to write in and tell how much it costs them to live? We have two sons (24 and 27) and they both live at home. For free. I keep their rooms clean and do their laundry (always 24 or 25 shirts a week).

they holler if I don't have steaks or chops every night. They each have to support an automobile so they can't pay anything at home. They say that unless parents are on welfare nobody pays room and board anymore. It seems like WE are paying THEM to stay with us. Are we crazy or are they? MA AND PA DEAR MA AND PA: They are crazy--like a couple of foxes.

BOYS don't pay room and board but MEN do. If your sons think they can get room, board and laundry for less than $25.00 a week, let them try it. CONFIDENTIAL TO UPSET MOTHER: Don't believe everything you hear about "school" and The public school doors are open to parents who wish to visit anytime without notice. It's too bad some parents prefer to stay at home and believe the worst rather than to visit schools and learn the truth. Work on your neck and use my neck care plan for this.

To obtain a copy of "How to Youthify Your Neck," send me in care of The Courier-Post a long, self-addressed, FOURCENT stamped envelope and TEN cents in coin. The outlined neck treatment will also help the sagging contour. I belive all problems have some solution. It may not the perfect one, but it will be helpful. Don't feel hopeless about anything.

If you want to, you can help whatever it is that worries you. "Whenever I bathe in warm water my skin itches terribly. I have just moved to this section and I think it is the hard water. What can I Use a handful of bicarbonate of soda in your bath water and also use cosmetic oil afterwards, "My skin is fairly well tanned. I have blue eyes and silver gray hair.

Can I wear a beige wool dress, and if you think well of it, what color accessories? I have not yet purchased the material to make the R. O'D." I would not choose beige. A lovely blue in a deep shade would do SO much more for your skin, hair and eyes. "Does hot oil really help dry Sara." Yes, but then must be applied directly on scalp and left for as long as possible with a damp towel wound around to it in. Women's CLASSIC LEAGUE forming Mon.

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